Lelaki dan tulang rusuknya

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WANITA : Siapa yang paling kamu cintai di dunia ini?
LELAKI : Kamu!!!
WANITA : Menurut kamu, saya ini siapa?
LELAKI : (Berfikir sejenak, lalu menatap WANITA dengan pasti).

Kamu, tulang rusukku!

Kerana Allah melihat bahawa Adam kesepian. Saat Adam sedang lena
tidur, Allah mengambil rusuk Adam dan menciptakan Hawa. Semua LELAKI
mencari tulang rusuknya yang hilang dan saat menemukan wanita
untuknya, tidak lagi merasakan sakit di hatinya...

Setelah berkahwin, pasangan itu mengalami masa yang indah dan manis
untuk sementara. Setelah itu, pasangan muda ini mulai tenggelam dalam
kesibukan masing-masing dan kelelahan hidup yang ada. Hidup mereka
menjadi membosankan.

Kenyataan hidup yang kejam membuat mereka mulai menyisihkan impian
dan cinta satu sama lain. Mereka mulai bertengkar dan pertengkaran itu
mulai menjadi semakin panas. Pada suatu hari pada akhir sebuah
pertengkaran WANITA lari keluar rumah.

Saat tiba di seberang jalan, dia berteriak "Kamu tidak cintakan saya
lagi!!!". LELAKI sangat membenci ketidakdewasaan WANITA dan secara
spontan juga berteriak "Saya menyesali perkahwinan ini! Kamu ternyata
bukan tulang rusukku!!!"

Tiba-tiba WANITA terdiam, dan berdiri kaku untuk beberapa saat. LELAKI
menyesali akan apa yang sudah dia lafazkan, tetapi seperti air yang
telah tertumpah tidak mungkin untuk diceduk kembali. Dengan berlinang
air mata, WANITA kembali ke rumah dan mengambil barang-barangnya,
bertekad untuk berpisah.

"Kalau saya bukan tulang rusukmu, biarkan saya pergi. Biarkan kita
berpisah dan mencari pasangan sejati masing-masing".

Lima tahun berlalu.. LELAKI masih belum lagi berkahwin, tetapi berusaha
mencari khabar akan kehidupan WANITA. WANITA pernah ke luar negeri
tetapi sudah kembali. Dia pernah berkahwin dengan seorang asing dan
bercerai. LELAKI agak kecewa bila mengetahui WANITA tidak menunggu,
sepertinya.

Dan di tengah malam yang sunyi, dia meminum kopinya dan merasakan
sakit di hatinya. Tetapi LELAKI tidak sanggup mengakui bahawa dia
merindukan WANITA.

Suatu hari, mereka akhirnya bertemu kembali.. Di airport, tempat di
mana banyak terjadi pertemuan dan perpisahan, mereka dipisahkan hanya
oleh sebuah dinding pembatas.

LELAKI : Apa khabar?
WANITA : Baik... kamu sudah menemui tulang rusukmu yang hilang?
LELAKI : Belum.
WANITA : Saya akan terbang ke New York dengan penerbangan berikut.
Saya akan kembali 2 minggu lagi. Telefon saya kalau kamu berkesempatan.

Kamu tahu nombor telepon saya kan ? Tidak ada yang berubah.

WANITA tersenyum manis, berlalu di hujung lafaz "Selamat tinggal..."

Satu minggu kemudian, LELAKI menerima khabar WANITA adalah salah
seorang korban Menara WTC. Malam itu, sekali lagi, LELAKI meneguk
kopinya dan kembali merasakan sakit dihatinya. Akhirnya dia sedar
bahwa sakit itu adalah kerana WANITA, tulang rusuknya sendiri yang
telah dengan bodohnya dia patahkan.
....

Kita menempiaskan 99% kemarahan walau kepada orang yang paling kita
cintai. Dan akibatnya adalah penyesalan.. Seringkali penyesalan itu
datang di kemudiannya, akibatnya setelah kita menyedari kesalahan
kita, semua sudah terlambat....

Kerana itu, jagalah dan sayangilah orang yang dicintai dengan sepenuh
hati... Sebelum mengucapkan sesuatu berfikirlah dahulu, apakah kata
kata yang kamu ucapkan akan menyakiti orang yang dicintai? Kira
merasakan akan menyakitinya, sebaiknya jangan pernah dilafazkan.
Kerana semakin besar risiko untuk kehilangan orang yang dicintai.

Jadi berfikirlah, apakah kata-kata yang akan dilafazkan sebanding dengan akibat yang akan diterima??

Doa-doa pilihan (^_^)v

Semoga perkongsian ini dapat memberikan manfaat buat semua...

Sikap Jujur

Salam, kali ni Lea nak berkongsi salah satu petikan buku yang Lea dapat daripada email daripada seorang rakan. Moga ia memberi manfaat buat kita semua...

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Allah SWT berfirman dalam Al-Quran: "Hai orang-orang yang beriman, bertakwalah kepada Allah

dan jadilah kalian bersama orang-orang yang benar (jujur)" At-Taubah: 1 19

Ayat tersebut memerintahkan kepada orang-orang beriman agar sentiasa bertakwa kepada Allah,

dan berlaku jujur bersama-sama dengan orang-orang yang jujur. Sikap jujur merupakan sifat

terpuji yang wajib menjadi hiasan bagi setiap peribadi muslim. Kejujuran merupakan senjata

ampuh dalam menjalani hidup dan kehidupan ini. Dengan sikap jujur, seseorang akan mendapat

simpati dan penghargaan tersendiri di tengah-tengah kehidupan bermasyarakat.

Jujur bererti mengatakan sesuatu sesuai dengan kenyataan yang ada dan melakukan sesuatu

menurut apa mestinya. Tidak menambah-nambah dalam mengucapkan sesuatu dan tidak

menguranginya, tidak membuat-buat sesuatu yang tidak ada kenyataannya dan tidak mengurangi

perlakukan yang hak.

Segala hak dan kewajipan baik terhadap dirinya sendiri, keluarga dan masyarakat sekiranya

dipenuhinya secara tepat, tidak dilebih-lebihkan dan tidak pula menguranginya. Itulah sikap

utama yang harus dimiliki sebagai keperibadian oleh setiap muslim sejati. Kita menyedari

bahawa sikap jujur itu akan membawa ke arah kebaikan, dan kebaikan akan mengantarkan

pelakunya menuju syurga. Orang yang bersikap jujur akan dicatat di sisi Allah sebagai hamba

yang bijak.

Sebaliknya, perbuatan curang akan membawa ke arah keburukan, sementara keburukan akan

menjerumuskan ke jurang neraka. Maka jangan sampai kita mendapat gelaran di sisi Allah

sebagai hamba yang dusta. Rasulullah SAW mengisyaratkan hal ini dalam sabdanya:

"Sesungguhnya sikap jujur itu membawa kepada kebaikan dan kebaikan itu membawa ke syurga.

Seseorang yang membiasakan diri berlaku jujur, nescaya akan dicatat di sini Allah sebagai hamba

yang jujur. Dan sesungguhnya sikap dusta itu akan membawa kepada keburukan dan keburukan

itu sungguh akan membawa ke neraka. Seseorang yang membiasakan diri berlaku dusta nescaya

akan dicatat di sisi Allah sebagai pendusta" HR Bukhari dan Muslim

Sikap jujur sungguh akan menciptakan kedamaian dan ketenteraman pada jiwa seseorang,

dan menimbulkan suasana teduh dalam keluarga dan masyarakat. Sekiranya setiap insan

beriman berlaku jujur, sehingga semua mukmin di seluruh dunia ini mendapat gelaran dari

sisi Allah sebagai hamba yang jujur, nescaya kehidupan dunia ini akan terasa sejuk dan

damai, terutama sekali di kalangan mukminin sendiri.

Tetapi apalah jadinya seandainya semua manusia berlaku dusta, sehingga semuanya mendapat

gelaran di sisi Allah sebagai pendusta. Nescaya tiap-tiap individu menjadi resah, kehidupan

dunia kacau bilau. Tiada ucapan yang dapat dipercayai dan tiada lagi perilaku yang terkawal

secara wajar.Oleh kerana itu, setiap mukmin hendaknya mampu mengendalikan diri untuk

tidak berbuat dusta. Kerana bagaimanapun juga perbuatan dusta itu akan menimbulkan

kebimbangan pada diri sendiri dan keragu-raguan pada orang lain.

Orang lain akan sukar mempercayai ucapan dan tindakan seseorang yang telah terbiasa

berlaku dusta. Rasulullah SAW mengisyaratkan hal ini dalam sabdanya:

"Tinggalkanlah hal-hal yang meragukanmu dan pilihlah hal-hal yang tidak meragukanmu.

Sesungguhnya kejujuran itulah yang mendatangkan ketenangan, sedangkan kebohongan

akan mendatangkan keraguan" HR At-Tarmizi

Berdasarkan hadis tersebut, kejujuran adalah sikap terpuji yang akan menenangkan

setiap jiwa. Maka sikap jujur seharusnya menjadi hiasan bagi perilaku setiap mukmin.

Sedangkan dusta dan kebohongan akan membuat keraguan pada diri sendiri dan juga orang

lain. Maka sikap dusta harus ditinggalkan jauh-jauh dari diri setiap mukmin.

Kejujuran, disamping akan menenangkan jiwa dan hati setiap pelakunya juga merupakan

amal terpuji yang tentunya akan mendapat imbalan berupa pahala. Sedangkan kedustaan

adalah perbuatan tercela yang mendatangkan dosa, dan tentunya akan mendapat imbalan

berupa seksa pedih. Sungguh perbuatan dusta hanya akan menyusahkan hati setiap

pelakunya. Ia akan menggores lubuk hati yang paling dalam, berupa goresan yang

membimbangkan.

Goresan itu tak akan hilang begitu saja, sekalipun pelakunya berubat ke mana-mana dan

banyak orang yang memberi fatwa kepada dirinya. Rasulullah SAW bersabda:

"Kebaikan adalah segala sesuatu yang menenangkan jiwa dan menenterami hati. Sedangkan

dosa ialah segala sesuatu yang menggores jiwa dan membimbangkan perasaan (hal ini tetap

terpateri dalam perasaannya) sekalipun orang lain banyak berusaha memberikan fatwa kepadamu

dan kamu sendiri telah berusaha untuk melupakannya" HR Ahmad

Mudah-mudahan Allah SWT sentiasa berkenan memberikan sinar terang kepada kita, sehingga kita

tetap bersikap jujur dan mampu meninggalkan perbuatan dusta. .

Petikan dari Buku Apa ertinya dunia bagiku & 97 kisah teladan.

Pengarang: Mohd. Najib Iskandar.

Story Behind Your Birth Date

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STORY BEHIND YOUR DATE OF BIRTH

If U were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month U r number 1....

If U were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then U r number 2...

If U were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then U r number 3...

If U were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then U r number 4...

If U were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then U r number 5...

If U were born on the 6th,15th,24th of any month then U r number 6...

If U were born on the 7th,16th,25th of any month then U r number 7...

If U were born on the 8th,17th,26th of any month then U r number 8...

If U were born on the 9th,18th,27th of any month then U r number 9...

Number 1

You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest,jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, famous person...always want to be and regarded as first on people position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people!

You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views and you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future.

If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some people too...

Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner &
Wonderful children... You are pioneer, independent & original...

Your best match is 4,6,8 good match is 3,5,7 !!!


Number 2

No matter what, you will be loved by every one coz your ruler is the
Moon and every one loves the Moon. Well.. You are a person who day dream a lot,
You have very low-self confidence, you need back up for every move in your life, you
Are very much unpredictable. Means you do change according to time and circumstances,
Kind a selfish, have a very strong sense of musical, artistic talent, verbal communication.
Your attitudes are like the Moon, comes to gloom and fade away so everybody can expect
Changes in you. You can be a next Mahatma Gandhi who does peace love or you can be a
Hitler who wants to destroy the man kind and peace (I mean in the community and your own home).

If you really have a deep thought about your own believe in God you can
Feel the difference which will make you stronger! Most of the time your
Words are a kind of would be happening true! So without any knowledge
You can predict the situation. You will become poets, writers, any
Artistic business people!

You are not strong in love, so you will be there and here till you get
Marry.. If U r a girl you will be a responsible woman in the whole
Family. If U r a man you will involve in fights & arguments in the family or
Vice-versa. Means you will sacrifice your life for the goodness sake of
Your family...You are gentle , intuitive with a broad vision, a power
Behind the scenes, well balanced People!!!

Your best match is 2 ,5 ,9 no other people can put up with you !!!


Number 3

You are a person of hard hearted, selfish most of the times, religious,
Loves to climb up in your life. You always tend to have lots of problems within your family in the early stages but you will put up with everything.. You have the strong word power, pretty happy face.. So wherever you go always you have got what you wanted!!! And from the birth always wanted to work hard in order to achieve something.. You will not get
Anything without hard work! When you reach a man/ woman age you want other younger
Once to listen to you because you want younger people to respect people older than them.
You do set so many examples to others. Generally you are not a cool person. It's not easy
thing dealing with you. A tough player you are! But once you like someone's attitud! e then
here you go, what can I say? It will be a lasting friendship. You always have respect from others.

Your life seems to have lots of worries and problems but sure they won't be long.. You will always have brilliant kids!!! You love the money a bit too much so temptation will push you to endless trying and trying.. If you are a guy then it's over. Looking after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being generous and kind (except 21st born men). And number 3s you will be such an example of how to be in the culture & life!!! If you are girl then you have good character and culture & hardworking attitude. You always follow.. You are a freedom lover, creative, ambition focused, a person who brings beauty , hope & joy to this world!!!

Your best match 6 ,9. Good match 1 ,3 ,5 !!!


Number 4

You are very stubborn too, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in life, very cool, helpful, you have rough word power.. Might put lots of people away from you, you may cause nuisance to others if you are a man, and you often understands others and their problems well. If you are a girl you are very good with studies and arts. If you are a guy you spend most of the time after girl friends (almost) at times, you will have sort of too much fun life with mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and get away with their life and you will become empty handed and don't know what to do... So be careful!! You love to spend anyway!!! Your good will is you are always there to help family and friends. Tell you what you people are little gem! s, specially the girls.. You always fall in love in younger age as well. You often live with disappointments, for an example you have got a degree in some thing... but you will be unemployed.. or will do very ordinary jobs. But you will take care of your family very well...All you need to be careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart. And beware of your relations too.. You are radical, patient, persistent,
a bit old-fashioned, you live with foundation & order...

Your best Match 1, 8. Good match 5 ,6 , 7 !!!


Number 5

You are very popular within the community, you can get things done by
just chatting..to even enemies! You have a pretty good business mind, you are often
have no-idea what is today is like, or tomorrow is like, you are a person who does anything
when your head thinks 'lets do this'. You will be famous if you open up a business,
get involve in share dealings, music etc.. Very popular with sense of humor ,you are
the one your friends and families will always ask for help, and you are the one actually
get money on credit and help your friends. You will have more than 1 relationship,
but when u get settle down you will be a bit selfish anyway. Coz your other half will
have a pretty good amount of control in you, be careful! You tend to go for other relationships!

Contacts even you are married at times 'coz your popularity.. You are someone who get along
with anyone coz the number 5 is the middle number.. Changes & freedom lovers you are! You are an explorer with magic on your face. You learn your life through experience and it's your best teacher!!!

Your best match 1 ,2 ,9. Good match 6 ,8 !!!

Number 6

Ooopppss..you are born to enjoy.. You don't care about others. I mean you are always want to enjoy your life time, you are a person.. You will be very good in either education or work wise or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people who you think are nice), very beautiful girls and guys, popular and more than lucky with anything in
your lives. All the goodness does come with you. Your mind and body is just made perfect for love. You are lovable by any other numbers. But if you are a number 6 man, you will experience kind of looks from most girls and will involve in more than few relationships until you get married. If you are girl, most of you will get marry/engaged early. You are ! a caring
person towards your family & friends . If you miss the half-way mark then you are about to suffer physically
and mentally. Generally you will lead a very good inner-home happiness with nothing short of. You are a person of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good
judgment, and after all you can heal this world wounds to make peace for every life coz you have the great power of caring talent to make this world of love one step further...

Your best match 1, 6, 9. Good match 4, 5!!!

Number 7

You have got the attraction to anyone out there, you are realistic, very confident, happy, such a talented individual with your education, music, arts, singing, and most importantly acting too. You have real problems with bad temper! If you are a girl, you are popular with the subjects listed above. You give up things for your parents. I mean you value your family status a lot, you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls, you are a very talented too. Most of the number 7s face lots of problems with their marriage life. Only a very few are happy. You have everything in your life, but still always number 7s have some sort of unfullfilness, such worries all their lifetime. It's probably the Lord given you al! l sort of over the standard humans talents and you are about to suffer in family life. So you need to get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don't, then you might end-up single. So take care with this issue, ok? You are wonderful, friendly, artistic, happy person.. You are born to contribute lots to this world!!!

Your best match is 2. Good matches are 1,4 !!!

Number 8

You are a very strong personality, there's no one out there will understand you. You are very good at pointing your finger at some thing and say 'this is what'. You are more likely to suffer from the early ages. I mean poverty. If your times are not good you might lose either of your
parent and end up looking after your entire family. You often suffer all the way in life. The problems will not allow you to study further, but you will learn the life in a very practical way. You are the one who will fight for justice and may die in the war too. You are normally very reserved with handful of friends and most of the time live life lonely and always
prepared to help others. Well. once you get married (which is often late) then your bad lucks will go away a bit and you! u become safe. You will face un-expected problems such as : the error, government, poisonous animals, accidents. You are some one with great discipline, persistence, courage, strength which will take you to success. You are a great part
of a family team. You are a fighter!

Your Best match 1 ,4, 8. Good match 5 !!!

Number 9

Hey....you guys are the incompatibles people in the world. You are so strong, physically and mentally... You are often have big-aims. You will work hard and hard to get there.
Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will have fighting life.. But when you achieve what you have done, it's always a big task you have done! You are so much respected in the community, you are a person who can make a challenge and successfully finish the matter off. You are very naughty in your younger age, often beaten up by your parents and involve in fights and you seemed to have lots of injuries in your life time. But when u grow you become calm and macho type. Love is not an easy matter for you. You are good in engineering or banking jobs coz people always trust you. Your family life is very good, but will have worries over your children. Your such qualities are humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate. You are born to achieve targets and serve every one all equally without any prejudice. You are totally a role model to anybody in the world for a great inspiration.

Your Best match 3, 5, 6, 9. Good match 2

Roda Memoriku

Roda memoriku berputar lagi
Roda itu bergolek-golek
Melalui jalan-jalan lama
Lorong-lorong yang sarat dengan rasa
Liku-liku yang berkerikil
Serta susur simpang yang pernah menjemput bingung datang menyinggah

Aku langut menadah langit
Memerhatikan warna kelam malam
Cerahnya mentari
Gebunya kepulan awan
Sirnanya alam tatkala mendung
Dan redup alam yang sedam dipandang
Segalanya kelihatan sama
Sungguhpun roda memori ini terus berlalu
Bergolek-golek sendiri tanpa arah dan haluan
Tanpa pemacu dan juga arahan
Terus melalui susur-susur kenangan nan lalu

Aku terus menyusurinya
Semakin lama semakin jauh ke dalam
Cuba mengingati lopak serta lubang
Yang pernah menjadikan kakiku mangsa
Terpelecok kernanya
Cuba mengingati rasa itu
Cuba menyelami rasa peritnya
Serta menghitung titis mutiara yang luruh akibatnya
Dengan harapan
Lubang itu tidak akan dilewati oleh kakiku lagi
Cukuplah hanya sekali
Aku tak mahu terjatuh lagi